She appeared to be your typical first lady: she competed with the other wives of the social and political elite, remained a loyal and dotting wife to her husband the President and raised her children to fit in with Washington's society. But behind the veil that separated the Washington Mary Todd from the true Mary Todd, you'll find that she wasn't your average first lady: tragedy would soon strike the Lincoln family that would follow Mary through the rest of her life. When the Lincoln family entered the White House, they were a happy family of 5. The Lincoln children- Tad, Willie and Robert- grew up in a very loving household with considerably "easy going" parents for the time. Willie was deemed a young Abraham Lincoln at a young age with his kind face and loving manners and was the apple of his mother's eye. It was Willie's early death that got the ball rolling for Mary Todd Lincoln's streak of turmoil.
The Lincoln family was extremely disheartened after young Willie's death and tragedy struck again as the Civil War was drawing to a close.
As Mary Todd and President Lincoln were sitting through a production of Our American Cousin at the Ford's Theatre in D.C, John Wilkes Booth entered their box and shot the President at point blank range. Mary Todd, witness to all, left the theatre a widow, donning a dress sprayed with the blood of her late husband. Mary was resistant in leaving the White House but eventually found herself settling in Chicago with her son Tad as Robert was making a life for himself as a lawyer. In her efforts of making a new life for herself, Mary found herself again in the midst of turmoil when the Great Chicago Fire hit leaving her and Tad in a city of destruction.
Various scandals later, including her battle with Congress to receive more money, Mary found herself moving abroad to make a new name for herself with Tad. But once again, Mary had to suffer through the death of another child as Tad became severely ill and died with his mother by his bedside.
Many years later with countless more scandals and a failed relationship with her son, Mary Todd was admitted into an insane asylum by her own son Robert.
Mary ended getting out of the asylum and patched things over with her only living son shortly before her death years later. Whether she was truly insane or extremely clever, history will always remember her as one of the more creative First Ladys.
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